Thursday night the conversation was unreal…everything from Miss Right being a C-cup (some of the guys got a little carried away in describing their Miss Right) to how in the effort of impressing the opposite sex we lose ourselves in some warped fake persona of who we are. The audience interaction was so intense I’m only led to believe it’s a huge struggle we all go through…so why hasn’t anyone been talking about it, posing solutions, or questioning the normal behavior of the dating scene?

Well Thursday night at Renown…it happened, we broke the cycle of insanity, laid out solutions, posed thought provoking questions, dug deep in the heart, and forced each other to take a long hard look in the mirror.

When trying to find Misses or Mr. Right, We go on this hunt preying on those around us, analyzing and dissecting the opposite sex. Yet do we want that done to us? What signals are we putting out to attract that special someone? Normally signs of DESPERATION!

Let’s take a second to put this all into perspective…if we want Misses or Mr. Right…when we find them…doesn’t that make us their Misses or Mr. Right? So then, do we have all our junk together, do we love our self, are we bettering yourself everyday because of goals we have set for yourself? No? Hmmm…How then do we expect to keep Misses or Mr. Right in our life if we aren’t capable of being a Misses or Mr. Right for them.

We can be such selfish creatures. Gimme Gimme Gimme perfection. Yet we are so far from it ourselves. Which don’t get me wrong…no one is perfect, but don’t expect perfection and then put that person down when they don’t live up to your outrageous standard. Let’s work on ourselves and become a Misses or Mr. Right and then we will attract the right person.

And I have still not even scratched the surface of the teaching and dialog that went down Thursday night at renown. Check the podcast for the full story at renownhuntsville.com